Being bullied hurts

Children across Canada live with victimization daily

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Four-eyes.

Weirdo.

Freak.

Loser.

I can still remember, vividly, what it felt like — walking back to my seat after lunch.

Trying to get there as quickly as possible.

I was wearing a pink shirt — my favourite colour. I thought it looked OK, but as I felt their eyes staring into my back, and the whispers uttered through 10-year-old lips, I began to doubt my choice.

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Canadian Blood Services still refuses donations from sexually active gay men

1980s rule in place to protect blood recipients, says organization

thumb kingsmith_blood2_copyIt took me about a week to work up the courage to walk into the blood clinic. The sterile smell filled my nostrils as I grabbed the clipboard from the front desk.

I sat down on one of the hard, lavender-coloured chairs and began to fill out the medical forms.

Feeling well? Yes. Taking any medication? No. Recent AIDS test? Yes. Any travel? No.

When I was done with the forms, a small, grey-haired nurse escorted me through the waiting room and to the rear of the clinic. Her orange crocs squeaked with every step on the linoleum.

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Back to Bonavista

Can you really ever go home?

thumb Pocza_neighbourhood_thumbI approach the community from the main route of anywhere in south Calgary — Anderson Road. I notice Bonavista peeking up from behind tiny hills that border the houses from the noisy traffic of the four-lane freeway. Even with a quick glance from my car, moving nearly 80 km/h I know that it's a safe and friendly place to be.

I no longer have an actual house to go back to in Bonavista, but being here today activates some of my most vivid memories.

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The community behind a metal gate

Life in the Slopes, a Calgary neighbourhood

slopes thumbIn Calgary's far west, on the southern side, lies the community of the Slopes.

A barred, brown metal gate blocks the private road at the entrance to it. A simple painted wooden street sign proclaims that the lands and the road are private property, owned and managed by the Slopes Community Association Ltd.

You cannot enter...But I can.

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One last round for One Weekend Only

X92.9 brings music, fear and loathing to the Rockies one last time

dan-manganthumbOne Weekend Only 5 had come to an end — and as I headed back to Calgary I had over a day's worth of tape, two cameras full of pictures and vague memories of robots, hot tubs and fog machines to sort through.

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